When a girl gets married, she is termed as less attractive and she loses her charm. This may sound odd but it’s true. There are many times that I've noticed married women are called AUNTY by children, teenagers and even elders and BHABHI by other males or from the same age group women and this happened to me as well when I was referred to as a SISTER and a GIRL before getting married but the names changed after I got married. It had become too much for me to handle at a time till I started wearing only saris or in some cases punjabi or salvar suits as I too found myself old and aged when I was in my late 20s. It happens with all married women and till they aren't married, they are considered as girls or women and after that as non-attractive aunties. Married women are considered as big sisters, aunts and so they need to look after their look more than unmarried woman especially because after pregnancy, there are hormonal changes which occur and woman put on a lot of weight. However, some women manage to look stunning even after their marriage as they look after their figure but still are not considered attractive as people look at them with respect and do not wish to remove the married factor from them. I don't say that we should not be respected but why are we tagged as unattractive women after marriage.
Same goes with celebrities as well who are married and their fan following reduces once they get married. Whether it's Aishwaria Rai, Kareena Kapoor or Rani Mukherjee, these three celebrities were considered as beautiful, size zero and hot before marriage while now all three are mummies or going to be mummies and hence are regarded as seniors in the Bollywood industry. They are just few years elder than the unmarried celebs in the industry but still this changes after they get married. They don't get roles like before.
This is a disturbing factor as for males, they always remain hot and desirable but there is a huge difference in the perspective when it comes to married women and I have never been able to decipher why this happens.
Same goes with celebrities as well who are married and their fan following reduces once they get married. Whether it's Aishwaria Rai, Kareena Kapoor or Rani Mukherjee, these three celebrities were considered as beautiful, size zero and hot before marriage while now all three are mummies or going to be mummies and hence are regarded as seniors in the Bollywood industry. They are just few years elder than the unmarried celebs in the industry but still this changes after they get married. They don't get roles like before.
This is a disturbing factor as for males, they always remain hot and desirable but there is a huge difference in the perspective when it comes to married women and I have never been able to decipher why this happens.
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